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5 Signs You’re Actually Very Insecure

Low self-esteem and jealousy are the root of the problem

Neva Naci
2 min readDec 1, 2023
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You might be doing some of these without realizing it. Your low self-esteem can lead to jealousy. When you catch yourself feeling jealousy or envy towards someone, stop and catch yourself.

How do you feel? Why do you feel this way? How can you communicate this better? What can you do to understand your behavior patterns and learn to shut off negative thoughts? Analyze your behavior changes.

Here are 5 signs you’re extremely insecure.

1/ You never apologize or admit when you're wrong

Your mistake or fault in a situation can be right before your eyes yet you won’t dare to apologize or admit you were in the wrong. This would be like a betrayal to yourself.

2/ You try to manipulate when you're caught in a lie

When someone points out that you lied, you do everything to turn it back on them. You’ve been put on the spot. Your attitude changes and becomes more aggressive as you try to manipulate them into thinking it’s somehow their fault.

3/ You degrade others to feel better about yourself

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Neva Naci
Neva Naci

Written by Neva Naci

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